Ask DB: House Husband or King Petty?
Welcome to DB’s Down in the DM, our weekly feature, where you, humble listeners and readers, get to ask 107.7 The Bounce’s advice guru your difficult questions, and today’s question…
Welcome to DB’s Down in the DM, our weekly feature, where you, humble listeners and readers, get to ask 107.7 The Bounce's advice guru your difficult questions, and today's question is from A Guy who hates the new nickname his wife gave him:
"We have no kids, a nice house for the two of us, and are overall living very very comfortably. She works very long hours, so I take care of most of the household things. Bella's started referring to me as her "house husband" around our family and friends. I've mostly been letting it go but every single time it bothers me. I finally got to the end of my rope when we were with her mother on Sunday, who still doesn't really approve of me, and they were talking about taking care of the lawn/garden and she said, "Thank goodness I have a house husband for that or I'd never find the time" and smiled at me. Then they both laughed. It was humiliating. I told her that she needed to stop emasculating me and making it seem like I didn't contribute anything to the household. She told me that she would stop calling me a house husband if I was going to "get that upset about it" but that it wasn't an untrue term and I needed to stop being insecure. Bella refuses to apologize I've stopped doing the chores until she apologizes and she is beyond pissed off. She's been coming home and cooking dinner (only for herself) and doing the chores I haven't and then taking off to spend the night at a friends house. Am I rightfully petty or should I accept the role of house husband?"
House Husband or King Petty, Here's DB's Advice
Let me start off with that if your significant other or partner asks you not to do something take it seriously. You can never tell a person how to feel. I know it's tough when we handle issues differently but you should never discredit or downplay their reality especially when they vocalize that. Now that's where she was wrong...but you are wrong too my friend. In this situation the real question I have is why does this irk you so much? Are you not wanting to be classified as "less" because of the name because if so that discredits to the many House Wives who stay home and take care of the house everyday. It is proven caring for the home and in cases children is a job all in itself and women are expected to do it and not complain. When the shoe is on the other foot though you seem to take offense and that my friend isn't a good look. Not doing the chores when that was your agreed role is silly. It's a partnership and at the end of the day you must fulfill your part of it. I say to you both is this the hill to end your relationship on? Because if this continues it will go to that path and you will both lead to regret. I hope you can look deeper and tackle those issues within and also find your new passion. Go back to animation, find your thing that will fulfill your life and keep your relationship intact before you lose it.
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5 of the Best Flea Markets in North Carolina and South Carolina
Hey there, fellow treasure hunters and antique aficionados, it's time for flea market frenzy! If you're like me, there's nothing quite like the thrill of the hunt, scouring through endless stalls and tables, searching for that one-of-a-kind gem that'll make your heart skip a beat and your wallet a little lighter. It's truly a passion and I'm here to share some tips and amazing flea markets for you to explore.
The Early Bird Gets the Goods
First things first, if you want to score the best deals and the rarest finds, you gotta be willing to rise and shine with the roosters. Trust me, the early bird doesn't just get the worm; they get the cream of the crop when it comes to flea market treasures. So, set your alarm, grab a strong cup of joe, and get ready to elbow your way through the crowds of fellow pickers.
The Art of the Haggle
Now, let's talk about the most important skill in a picker's arsenal: the art of the haggle. Don't be afraid to channel your inner negotiator and work those charm muscles. Remember, the price tag is just a suggestion, and everything is negotiable at a flea market. Flash a friendly smile, strike up a conversation, and before you know it, you'll be walking away with a steal of a deal. Hopefully.
Hidden Gems and Oddities at the Flea Market
One of the best things about flea markets is the sheer variety of items you'll come across. From antique furniture and vintage clothing to quirky knick-knacks and one-of-a-kind oddities, there's something for everyone. I've found several first edition books that were worth way more than the seller was asking. Keep your eyes peeled for those hidden gems that might just be the missing piece to your collection or the perfect conversation starter at your next dinner party.
The Thrill of the Hunt
At the end of the day, treasure hunting at flea markets is all about the journey, not just the destination. Embrace the chaos, the dust, and the occasional odd smell, because that's all part of the experience. Who knows what kind of amazing finds you'll uncover or what fascinating characters you'll meet along the way? So, grab your comfiest shoes, a wad of cash, and get ready to embark on the ultimate picker's adventure at your local flea market! I've pulled together a list of some of the must visit flea markets in North and South Carolina.
Raleigh Flea Market - Raleigh, NC
One of the largest flea markets in North Carolina with over 600 vendors across six buildings and several acres
- Famous for having the largest collection of antiques, jewelry, and furniture in the state
- Open every Saturday and Sunday from 9am to 6pm at the Historic State Fairgrounds
